Here’s this month’s regular Man About Town column from Pep Cipriano, who like the rest of us is currently more Man About the Lounge on lockdown…
TIME IS NOW AND NOW’S THE TIME
Lockdown. Now there’s a word we won’t forget in a hurry.
For the most part I’ve been absolutely fine with it and maybe I’m one of the lucky ones.
I’m disciplined by nature and haven’t fallen to the depths of over-indulging in anything whether it be food, television or some other potentially addictive distraction during a time when we’re all pushing the limitations of our mental strength.
I live alone and coming through this unscathed is something I’m proud of. There’s been days when I haven’t talked to another human being but that’s been fine. It’s fine because, in a way, I’ve been in isolation since Christmas when I was made redundant from my job.
I kind of had a head-start on what it’s like to have structure, routine and purpose taken away from you after years of being on a treadmill because I have a mortgage to pay.
I still have a mortgage to pay, so returning to meaningful employment is key, but my journey has been held up with many companies currently freezing recruitment.
So, instead of going out of my mind and escaping in beer, books or even music – I’ve been occupying my brain by keeping creative. Writing comes naturally to me and it’s one of the reasons I’ve remained on track.
Another way I’ve been passing my time is by not feeling guilty that I actually have time in the first place. I’ve often got to the evening (when my routine is largely the same as pre-lockdown) and felt satisfied that I’ve done absolutely nothing all day.
It’s called rest and we all need it. We need rest away from the mental bruising of our jobs, we need rest away from burning out at the gym and sometimes we actually need rest away from people.
This period (key workers aside) is a time for self-healing and more importantly, self-discovery. Most of us should have learnt a new skill during self-isolation. And this is because we’ve had one thing that we’ve always struggled to get more of and that’s time.
Time has given us more dedication to our children, our pets, our partner – our everything. Time has allowed us to be honest with ourselves, test ourselves, teach ourselves and be critical of ourselves. Time has shown us how to value more and become better versions of ourselves. Time has made us industrious.
Yes, to some of us time has been torture. But in the long-run if lockdown was just what you needed to realise you have to leave your partner, get that better job, become that more attentive parent, start that diet or be that better listener then you’ll be a new and improved version of you when this is all over.
There’s always a silver lining and one of the traits of an optimistic person (not to be confused with a positive person) is to acknowledge we’re in a tunnel but to see the light at the end of it. How bright that light will be once you get there is determined by yourself.
Dazzle now while we’ve been given the gift of time and trust me, you’ll be the one shining at the end.
LOCKDOWN TOP TEN
I love a top ten, so I thought I’d compile three of my own.
The first is my routine before the lockdown and during the lockdown. The danger is, I’m quite liking the look of my current typical week…
Ten things I used to do:
Get up at 7.30am
Shave every day
Apply for jobs
Go for coffee
Get some lurve
Go to the gym
Cough near someone without feeling I’ve broken the law
Drive my cars
Only wash my hands after I’d been to the toilet
Ten things I’ve been doing:
Getting up at 10.30am, not bothering to dress
Shaving weekly and pruned once
Obsessing with plucking ear and nose hair
Tutting at people glaring at me because I’m wearing a mask and gloves
Cleaning, painting, sorting, fixing and learning
Polishing my car – three times
Appreciating old holiday photos
Cycling 20 miles (I self-served at McDoggals / Dog in a Doublet)
Changing a bolt on my car and destroying my knuckle
Writing my will and funeral plan
I’ve also discovered lots of things and here are just ten of them…
I don’t need sugar in coffee (I ran out and forgot to buy some)
My toenails grow really fast
Ferry Meadows is a real gem with a wooden badger, we should be proud
Lemon curd goes really well with Dairylea
People in the western hemisphere eat too much
There’s more than one use for baby oil
I can still pull a wheelie on my Chopper
How to use my oven
So many people are unhappy at home
It’s not in our DNA to be good at social distancing
And finally, here’s what I’m looking forward to when we’re finally all allowed to be something like normal again…
Having a Gregg’s sausage and bean bake
People watching while sipping a flat white
Going for a drive because I can
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